(It’s been a REALLY long time since I did “Little Victories” so I could not even remember what week we were on. It’s the end of the semester, cut me some slack.)
For 2013, I’m going to have a Friday post every single week, for positive victories in my life. They may not be big things, but they will be things that I am proud of, things I did in the past seven days. I’m hoping this will keep me focused on the positive, all the good things that are going on in my life.
– Pulled myself (within 24 hours) out of a slump that I felt last weekend. It may not seem like that big of a victory, but I’ll tell you, divorce wreaks havoc on your sense of self-worth, and if you can get out of a semi-depressive slump in 24 hours, that’s a damn good thing.
– Reached (and passed) the anniversary of the day D first told me he wanted a divorce, without theatrics, without getting (too) upset. I realized I’ve definitely turned a corner, and that corner is acceptance. And that feels pretty damn good.
– Got the green light from my thesis adviser to start my prospectus for my thesis. Rough draft is due on April 23rd. (In regards to the link, my teacher also pushed back the research paper, which was a huge relief).
– Best news: WE GOT AN APARTMENT! I feel like this should sort of be an entry in and of itself, but…yes. Samantha and I got an apartment. It’s about five minutes from school, 12 minutes from my work. Second floor of a three-family home, doesn’t look like much on the outside. But inside, oh, inside. I wish I had pictures, I really do. It’s gorgeous. Hardwood floors, windows everywhere, the cutest bathroom, big bedrooms, a washer and dryer (definitely my favorite part of the apartment!) and off-street parking. I’m a little worried about living there, because it’s only two blocks from where I lived a few years ago (worst couple years of my life, even tops separating and divorcing, really, but that’s all I’m going to get into since it was so long ago). But friends of mine straightened me out, and said it was practically criminal to give up such a beautiful apartment that was literally everything we were looking for, just because it happens to be near my old place.
Rent (split with Samantha) is only going to be $50 a month more than I’m paying now. Plus I’ll be splitting the utilities, which will also be a load off. It’s gas heat (the apartment D and I lived in was oil heat) so that will be pretty cheap. I’m excited.
So excited, even, that I even went back to that devil’s social network, Pinterest. Samantha definitely started it. She created an apartment pinboard and we’ve both been working on it the past few days. It really helps that she and I have the same basic loves when it comes to decorating. We’re both very French country. These are some of the things we’ve pinned this far for ideas:
Moving in is going to suck (second floor walk-up, after all!), but decorating and unpacking is going to be great. And laundry — there’s laundry! I have to say having a washer and dryer is my favorite part about this new place.
It’s going to be a good weekend, I think. After work today I’m going to Jess’s house for a bit, and then it’s off to see D’s cousin Amy for the weekend. We’re very good friends and I haven’t seen her since Christmas, though we talk about once or twice a week. I’m seeing MIL tomorrow, which is going to be rough, but I’m glad that it’s happening.
Happy weekend, all!